Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives . . . . Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious givt of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
- 1 Peter 3: 1-2, 7
A heart dominated by pride says "I would rather allow my marriage to die than admit that I am wrong". A heart driven by Biblical love and commitment says "I will do whatever it takes to strenghten and build up my marriage because I know it's that important".
The fact is, you cannot change your spouse, but you can change yourself. When conflict arises, changes you make to improve yourself and your marriage can effectively produce healthy responses in the other spouse.
Keep control of your anger and don't show disrespect. Keeping these points in mind can greatly enhance communication with your husband and keep your relationship loving and positive.
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Great words, XOXO, very true. I've only been married for 3 years, and have experienced both swings, but it's so worth it, huh?!
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